Description: In this article, science and maths tutor Semire shares his thoughts on how to help students build up their confidence and self-esteem.
Confidence is one of the biggest things students struggle with in school.
I have often seen students move up one or two grades simply by changing their thoughts on education.
They can feel that they don’t know enough, or their teachers dislike them and can’t teach, or everyone is more intelligent than them.
The reasons are endless.
All this can frustrate them and cause a lack of interest in the school.
Here are some tips to help boost your children’s confidence at school:
Help Gain a Positive Mindset
Often if a child needs to improve in a subject, they believe they’re just not good at it, which often makes them procrastinate studying it.
Then they do poorly, and this vicious cycle continues.
It’s essential to teach them that failure is all right and to keep pushing hard to succeed.
Like anything in life, there are steps and a process at school.
They should be praised for their efforts rather than their natural intelligence.
Children will be more willing to keep trying regardless of difficulty.
Doing regular past papers, mini quizzes, and flashcards are all excellent ways of learning from mistakes.
Be Involved In Your Child’s Learning
With the business of life, parents sometimes forget that a child is just a child.
They might just need someone to sit down with them.
Showing that you care and getting involved when they struggle can give children confidence since their parents have their back.
Getting involved is always encouraging, even if they don’t need help.
This should not feel like you are watching their every move.
Rather the occasional check-up on how they are doing, not just at exam sessions or when they are failing.
Teach Them to Speak up When They Are in Need
Following on from Point 2, it can be challenging for parents to get involved when they don’t know what’s wrong.
Explain to your child that it’s okay to seek help from teachers, friends, and anyone else.
There is no shame in asking for help. A little assistance can go a long way. Sometimes the support they may need is more than just educational, so being attentive to this can be very helpful.
Show Them the Importance of Setting Goals.
Often, especially for those who aren’t fond of school, education can be a chore.
Help your child set goals for the future.
Plans don’t have to be grand; sometimes, small achievable goals go a long way.
When the student sees that they meet their goals, their confidence grows more and more.
Tracking their improvements is an excellent way to visualise their progress and can encourage them, even for those who dislike school.
Help Them Believe in Their Abilities
School can often be overwhelming.
Self-doubt can creep in. Please encourage your child that their efforts will pay off.
When they feel stressed about an exam or project, show them they are no more than they think and there’s nothing to worry about.
A relaxing environment at home is also conducive. A good night’s sleep, healthy food, and time to relax can reduce self-doubt.
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